Snow and Sisters Saving a Sister

With all of this rare winter weather in the south, I am reminded of approximately 5 years ago when I was in Atlanta for a Women in Aviation Conference - and I got stuck in Atlanta with the winter weather.  I was travelling alone, and because of that I was actually able to have quite the adventure.

I had a great time at the WAI 2009 conference - it was late February in Atlanta.  A little chilly, but nothing like the cold weather I had in Missouri... and then a rapid moving cold front came through.

The cold front whipped through the south and Atlanta overnight after the closing banquet, and go home day was graced with the presence of snow.  It was only a dusting, maybe a few inches, but it was enough to shut down the metro and Atlanta Airport.  Without proper snow removal equipment and the lack of salt/trucks, the south is at a huge disadvantage in combating snow/ice.

Anyhow, every flight in Atlanta on the Sunday after the conference was cancelled.  There was another winter storm up in the northeast too, so 90% of the flights on Monday got cancelled too.  It was a mess all over the country.  I was going to be stuck in Atlanta till at least Tuesday.

Snowmageddon 2009, Atlanta

Luckily, some friends from other schools heading back to the Midwest got stuck in the same boat as me and we hung out Sunday night - but they had a van and got out on Monday when the roads were cleared.  I was alone on Monday, but I had made a friend at the conference that went to Georgia Tech.  After her classes we went out for some southern food (fried green tomatoes anyone?) and she ended up taking me on a tour of her campus.  We went to her Phi Mu house where she said I could spend the night to save on hotel money... then I mentioned the fact that I was an Alpha Gam.  Turns out, she was good friends with the AGD president at the time so she took me over to the AGD house.

My Phi Mu & Women in Aviation Friend & I, someone show me how to do my makeup..

At the GA Tech AGD house I ended up meeting so many other sisters - it was my first time really getting to see a ton of sisters outside of my chapter and neighboring chapters that helped out at recruitment, etc.  They were all excited to hear about what my chapter did, and I was excited to hear about their chapter.  We even traded t-shirts!  We were having so much fun that it quickly became midnight - and they invited me to spend the night at The Alpha Gamma Delta House - they took me in as one of their sisters for the night.  I was kind of shy about sisterhood up until then, but when one of the senior girls at GA Tech told me "sisters are sisters, no matter where you were initiated or what chapter house you live in" it really clicked.  These girls took me under their wings because we wear the same letters on our chests.  These girls sheltered me, fed me, and took care of me till my departure flight because we believe in the same values.

Words could not describe how grateful I was for those sisters at Georgia Tech.  Not only did they save me a night in a hotel, but they provided me with memories that I will cherish.  It really showed me that sisterhood goes beyond your chapter housing, and a sister is no stranger.  We share letters, beliefs, and a purpose that all bonds us together no matter where initiation occurred.  It may sound cheesy, but it's the truth.

Oh, and here's an even BETTER twist to the plot - I recently have gotten involved in the Alpha Gamma Delta Alumnae Group here in Dallas (Junior Circle) and one of the girls in the Junior Circle here was in the house at GA Tech when I was a guest!  While we didn't remember each other exactly, it's kind of crazy how the odd twist of fate brought us both to Dallas.  She even works in the aviation industry!  Talk about a funny story.  It's a small world when you combine aviation and Greek Life.


Many of my friends know I speak very highly of Greek Life, and this is just one of the many examples why.  I'm proud to be a female pilot, and I'm proud to wear my Alpha Gamma Delta Letters.

Everything was cleared up on Tuesday, like nothing happened.

Blue Skies!

XOXO

A "sisterhood" ever so vast in the skies

As I mentioned in one of my previous posts, I went to the Women in Aviation, International Convention last March and had a WONDERFUL TIME.  I go every year, but now that it's less than 45 days away from the one for 2014, I decided to write a little about the conference and the subject of "women in aviation".


I'm a proud member of a National Sorority, and I have a great sisterhood through Alpha Gama Delta - but I also have another "sisterhood" through a great organization called Women in Aviation.

A girl pilot - or "aviatrix" -  we're very rare.  There are not many of us.  Statistics show that only only 3% of ATP license holders are females.  At my university, I was one of maybe three girls in most aviation classes, and the only girl that walked the stage at graduation for my class... and that was including pilots and aviation management majors.  Aviation just doesn't have a lot of girls, period.

Besides joining a sorority and oversleeping 8:00am classes, one of the things I did during college was join the organization Women in Aviation, International.  In a nutshell, Women in Aviation, International (abbreviated WAI) is an organization that strives to promote the education, scholarship, advancement, networking, and more through mentorship, publications, local chapters, speakers, and most importantly - the annual conference.  Similar to a sorority, there is so much more than the description of the organization.  Looking from the outside, you can't describe all of the great benefits it has.  Membership is open to anyone, both genders - it's a great organization for any profession in aviation, at any age.  I highly recommend anyone interested in aviation - no matter what job- to join.

This wonderful organization also helped me throughout my years in college and even now as a college graduate.  I've met wonderful people through this organization and had the best experiences through Women in Aviation events.

As a pilot, I love bullet lists so here's some bullet points on the benefits I personally received.  Everyone differs, but it's just some benefits that you can probably experience too.

1)  A feel of belonging and support - Until I really went to my first Women in Aviation conference back in 2009 in Atlanta I had no idea so many females were really involved in aviation.  Sure, I grew up military and saw female pilots on the base but there were so few of them.  I didn't think females were in every aspect of aviation... it didn't really click till I met so many people at the conference.  After an entire year and half of being the only girl in my aviation classes at school, I finally felt like I was a part of something.  I felt like I belonged and that I was accepted by my fellow peers.  I wasn't the token girl pilot, for once.  We supported each other.  It almost felt like a sorority - I was at home.

2)  Friends - This mostly occurs at the conference, but Women in Aviation is great... just... HOLY NEW FRIENDS!  My friends all know that I'm a bit of a social butterfly - and I'll write another blog soon on the WAI conference attendance - but that doesn't mean that shy girls and guys won't get any contacts through WAI.  You're bound to meet new people at the key note speakers, seminars, workshops, and exhibit hall.  In addition, WAI has local chapters - ALL OVER THE WORLD!  I started out with my university chapter, but now I belong to the DFW Chapter in North Texas.  I'm still new to the local chapter, but I'm making new friends through it.  In fact, I made friends with a gal that owns a T-6... we're making plans to have a $100 hamburger in a T-6!

3)  Networking -  Related to the aforementioned, networking is amazing through WAI.  You'll meet friends at chapters, local events, and the conference - but you'll also probably meet your future boss and future co-workers.  Because of WAI, I was able to score an internship with American Airlines.  I met the HR hiring team at the booth, and after chatting with them they asked for my resume - apparently I met the right people because the day after the conference I got a phone call asking for an interview!  Oh, little did I know - one of the gentlemen working the booth at the exhibit hall ended up being one of my bosses during the summer internship too.  Small world, eh?  Even now that I graduated, I still cherish my connections (my sorority purpose has a great line "to cultivate acquaintance with many whom I meet") with everyone thorough WAI.  As small as the aviation world is, we're bound to cross paths again.

4)  Motivation - Seeing all these other accomplished ladies (and gentlemen, I haven't forgotten about you brave conference goers too) only motivates me and inspires me.  At my first WAI conference, I met so many inspiring pilots, managers, mechanics, and much more.  The Women Air Service Pilots (WASPs) are some of the most iconic and inspiring ladies in aviation!  Also, at my first conference I saw other girls and guys going up on stage at banquets for awards and type rating scholarships.  This motivated me to apply to scholarships later that year.  With the funny turn of events, one of the friends I made at my first conference in 2009 won a certain scholarship and I asked for her advice on WAI scholarships... and I ended up winning the same scholarship she did the following year in 2010.  It's even funnier that a girl I met in 2010 asked me how I got the scholarship... fast forward to 2012, and she won the same scholarship.  Who knew I would end up motivating someone?  Scholarship aside, it's always inspiring to see other females in aviation that have blazed the trail before us.

5)  Scholarships - Just like I said, scholarships. FREE MONEY! $$$  I've been so so blessed by WAI scholarships.  I won't disclose how much I've got, but it's been enough to get me through entire flight ratings and tuition.  Thankful doesn't even begin to cover how I feel.  I'm BEYOND blessed.  Although I can't give back in the form of money right now, I eventually do want to donate a scholarship through this organization.  Anyhow, every fall WAI collects applications for various scholarships.  I highly recommend taking a look at what they have.  There's so much out there for anyone, at any level of training.  You have to be a member to apply, but it's so worth it.  Heck, the first scholarship I won was one of the biggest ones offered (besides type rating ones) - and I sent my application in thinking "I won't get it, but oh what the heck".  In the past few years I learned to adopt the phrase "the worst they can say his no!"  I can't wait to give back to this wonderful organization in the form of money or sponsoring another young aviator in flying.

My 2nd conference in 2010 - Also my first scholarship through WAI.  I cringe at my dress choice though.

Last year's conference in 2013.  Posing with two Women Air Service Pilots and colleagues.  Inspiring ladies!

So that's my two cents on Women in Aviation.  I think it's almost like a secondary "sorority" to me.  Though we have no letters to dawn on our chests, no secret ritual, or badge to wear I am proud to be a member of Women in Aviation with tons of other inspiring females (and males) that have blazed the path before me.  It's a inspiring, supportive, cheerful group that's world wide.



Blue Skies! xoxo

My first New Year in the Mainland..

HAPPY NEW YEAR!

This year was my first holiday season in the mainland USA in a LONG time... like. 20 years.  Being a military child, my holidays were spent at our overseas station or in a nearby country.  Since I got a new job and moved, I didn't have time to go home to see my parents.

What I did get to do though was spend time with new friends and old friends - new friends I made here through networking such as Greek Life, soccer supporter groups (from American Outlaws to Sporting KC/MLS games), women in aviation; and old friends from school, internships, and family that are in the area.

It was really different being in the mainland for the holidays and I couldn't do my usual tacky joke of "hey guys, I'm in the future because it's already the New Year here!" but I got to really appreciate the people that surround me and I was able to count even more blessings.  Although I did miss my parents, I was so glad to have others around me and I learned some things.

First Sunrise of 2014!

* I learned that sorority sisterhood really does go beyond the "four years of college".  Because of sorority netowrking, I ended up spending Christmas with a sorority sister from another chapter.  Her chapter helped mine during recruitment, and we became facebook friends after that weekend.  Social media kept us in touch - and we both saw that we had great passion for our sorority.  During a work trip she had in Dallas on Christmas, we got to meet up and have dinner together.  It meant the world for me to spend time with a sister on a holiday.  Plus, we discovered that we were pretty much twins by singing Legally Blonde the musical lyrics together from memory.  I'm glad I got to see a fellow squirrel and spend time with her!  Sisterhood really goes beyond your four years of college.

* New Years was spent with a friend I met through Women in Aviation - true Texas style!  I've always loved country music since I grew up on classic country like George Jones, Johnny Cash, Loretta Lynn (I once sang Coal Miner's Daughter for a talent show), and more.  Plus with ball room dancing parents and as a former ballet dancer, I LOVE dancing - the fact that almost everyone here knows how to two-step just makes me SO. HAPPY.  and live country music? LOVE.  Ringing in the new year with a friend from women in aviation and country music was wonderful.  I can't wait for more adventures with her!

SO, it's 2014!! I can't believe it.  Weren't we worrying about the new millennium and computers rising against us in 2000 or something like that just yesterday?

As everyone does with the New Year, I made a few resolutions.  Some are private, but I figured I'd share some public.

1.  Eat healthier.  Okay, yes I know, everyone does this resolution.  I'm going to make it to a reward system where I can eat "unhealthy" or enjoy a guilty pleasure like fast food or ice cream on the weekends.. but during the week I'll eat healthy and avoid eating out.  Packing a lunch, making dinner, etc.  This worked for my friend so I'm thinking of trying it too.

2.  Stop using my phone while driving.  Entirely.  I'm guilty of it, I'm sure many of you are too.  I tried to be "good" and use it only at stop lights but this year I'm going to put my phone in my purse and keep it there till I get to my destination.  I have hands free calling, and if it's a call I must take, I'll do so.  Other than that, not using the phone.  It can wait.

3. Get my flexibility back.  I've gotten out of dancing and yoga, so I'm stiff as a rock now.  Since I live in a big city, finding a good yoga studio shouldn't be hard, as well as a good ballet studio that has intermediate adult classes.  The goal is to have a complete splits and cambre (bend backwards) with more movement than now.  It's going to be tough, but patience is virtue.

4.  Work on my Spanish!  Texas has more of a Spanish speaking population.  I studied Spanish in high school and did the minimum in college - but I've lost a lot of it.  Being in an area that has a better concentration of Spanish speakers, I'm hoping to get better at speaking, reading, and writing Spanish.  Perhaps immersing myself fully in Spanish speakers would be good - it's how I learned Japanese fluently (although that was when I was 4..).

What are yours?

XOXO Blue Skies!


明けましておめでとうございます。もう新年、早いですね。

去年の末に引っ越した末、まだ日本にいる親に会えず、新しい仕事の都市でクリスマスと年明けを過ごすはめになったんですが、運よくこっちにも友達が多くって一人ぼっちでいる時間なんてなく、本当にすばらしい人々に囲まれてるんだなって確信できました。

クリスマスはソロリティで知り合った友達と会って、夕飯を一緒にできました。大学そのものは違ったんですが、ソロリティで知り合ってフェースブックなどで連絡を取り合ってたので、彼女がダラスに来たから一緒に食事して、色々話しました。ソロリティはすばらしいと実感できました！日本にはソロリティがないから、日本人の友達に説明するのはいつも難しいんだけど…とりあえず、映画とかテレビに出てくるソロリティとかは、結構嘘っぱちですね。というより、たいていテレビとか映画って現実と大変離れていますよね。

年明けは航空学の関係で参加したセミナーで知り合った友達と過ごせました。テキサスは、カントリーミュージックが豊富な州。私も小さい頃からクラシックなカントリー（ジョニー・キャッシュなど）を聞きながら育ったものだから、カントリーが平日でも生で聞けるレストランの多い町が新鮮ですばらしい！年末は有名なカントリーバンドを聞きながら、踊り明けました。親がソシアルダンスの先生、私もバレエを習いながら育ったものだから踊るのはもともと大好きです。ダンスホールつきのバーやレストランにいるテキサスの人々はほとんどが二人組みで踊るのが結構上手です。いつか素敵な人をダンスホールで見つけるのが、ささやかな夢だったりします。

ところで、新年の目標を少し立てました。個人的なのは公開しませんが。。。


１．もっと健康的に食べる！　外食は週末だけにし、お弁当をつめ、野菜と和食中心の食事を心がけます。アイスやファーストフードはどうしても食べたいって時は、週末まで我慢！って心がけるようにします。外食の数も減ればお金も節約できて、一石二鳥！

２．運転時のケータイ禁止！　アメリカは州によってケータイが運転中に使えます。よく赤信号でメール打ったりしてるけど、もうそれもやめます。安全第一！

３．柔軟体操を再開！　昔バレエをやってた時は体が柔らかくって、ヨガも達者だった時代が。。。今は運動不足手体ガチガチ。毎日柔軟を続けるように心がけます！

４．スペイン語をもっとがんばる！　高校時代学び、大学も少し勉強したんですが、テキサス州はスペイン語を話す人が北のほうの州よりいっぱいいるので、もしかしたらこっちでも達者になれるのかなと。


皆さんの新年の目標は？　今年もよろしくお願いします！